When someone is a good tipper/private customer, commit his real name to memory. When he shows up in your room again, give him a warm welcome and ask how he is doing by remembering a details he shared with you. Some cam sites let you take notes on members/customers.
TRY NOT TO LOOK BORED ON CAM EVEN WHEN IT IS SLOW
It turns people off from you. At least try to be doing something to look somewhat busy in the eyes eg. watch comedy, create a playlist, draw up a grocery shopping list, anything to keep your eyes from glazing over. If you are having trouble tuning into the present moment put the camera on different part of your body so you don’t have to show your eyes.
KEEP UP SOME CONVERSATION, EVEN IF YOU’RE BY YOURSELF
If there is traffic in your room, but no one is talking, just pretend someone is conversing with you from another site. For all they know you could be splitcamming. Mention your tip menu, vids you sell, your social media, (if the site lets you), talk about your day, tell a story, jokes, talk about your cat.
BE SOMEWHAT POSITIVE MOST OF THE TIME
For most doms this won’t apply however, being smiley and cheerful, does help immensely with being approachable.Constantly complaining about it being slow, being annoyed, getting frustrated and worst of all, putting down other models etc. doesn’t help at all with getting tips and privates. Unless your persona is the spoiled, bratty, selfish, sociopathic bitch, most of the time customers are attracted to models who seem busy, in demand and desirable. Depending on your persona, expressing anger, frustration and annoyance on cam is for the most part detrimental. It usually helps to step away if your emotions are getting the better of you.
STAY SOMEWHAT SOBER
Some token site models like to have guys tip for drinks with the intention of getting you drunk so you do crazy stuff on cam. It is up to your discretion whether or not you think you can handle this kind of show. For the most part, it’s probably safer to dilute your alcohol so you remain somewhat sober and not stinking drunk. Passing out and puking on cam can get you banned from the majority of cam sites. Plus getting really drunk ruins your hustle and game therefore making you earn less.
GET OTHER MEMBERS/CUSTOMERS TO VOUCH FOR YOUR SHOWS
Get others in the room who have had shows/privates with you to boast about your prowess to the others in the room.
APPEAR AND/OR BE GENUINE AND HONEST
It really helps to appear honest and genuine in your speech and mannerism, guys lap it up. It’s also easier to execute this personality trait to entice a guy into a private or to get them to tip to play a game, or contribute to your show.
ABC and EOTP- Always Be Closing and Eyes On The Prize
Your conversation doesn’t have to revolve around shows, tipping and privates, but know how you can bring it back to ask for what you want. if you keep your eyes on the prize, you won’t falter. Perfect example: "Really? well my favorite place that I visited so far was Copenhagen, Denmark." (Let this sentence sink in, smile. count to three. "OK, enough of this talk.. let's go private/play!"
PLAY UP YOUR FUCK ME EYES, LIPS, BOOBS
When you talk to a customer, look at the lens of your camera and bring attention to your boobs! i will "unconsciously" touch my boobs while i talk sometimes to "fix" them in the outfit. You WANT the customer to sexualize and objectify you. That's what he's there for, so make him do it.
HAVE A ROUTINE BEFORE WORK
If you make a coffee, do that each time you go to work. The routine will get you into camgirl mode. If you develop a routine, you will rarely have to "pep" yourself up during work, because the pepping will have done itself for you.
CONFIDENCE IS KEY
When talking myself up, sometimes i will say stuff like, "well you deserve a show from the hottest girl/best girl here! and i'm totally ready for you!" who cares if you actually are not the hottest girl or best there! your attitude is key and that attitude is very attractive.
*accepting NO as an answer is sometimes the best way to go. but whatever you do, never ever ask, "why not?" it will waste more of your time and is not conducive to turning that NO into a YES.
*pamper YOURSELF on your off days: manicure, pedicure, massage, shopping trip.. whatever floats your boat. puts you in a good place mentally and it comes thru.
*talk sex. bring it up in conversation
GOOD CLOSING LINES
"let's go have some fun"
"mmm, maybe later.."
"ok, maybe you’ll be back to drag me away for some naked time!" (wink smile coyly whatever cute facial expression you can do)
and when he returns,
"Oh you’re back, now I’m going to have to force you to have a naked girl on top of you, oh the horror!"
He comes back a 2nd time, you then say, ok, when you come back, we're going to have fun. make SURE he says yeah we will.
On his return, "let's do it! you told me you would come back, you did, you follow directions well. (wink coy smile whatever) now let's get you naked!"
"Let's get the money out of the way so we can really have fun!" (This is for tip based, indie sites).
"I hate talking money, let's just get that out of the way so we can have fun!/so I can get naked already!" (For tip based/indie sites).
"We're going to have so much fun tonight. Let’s get this started!"
"I'm glad I found you. You’re making my night. Let’s play."
DON’T WORRY ABOUT THE COMPETITION
i dont think i've ever been compared to another girl. see, i think the word competition is bad. at work, you aren't competing against any other girls. why? because you ARE the best. it doesn't really matter if you don't do her "best" move, because your "best" is way better. it's more sensual, sexy AND hot. In my experience, guys see hot girl, with pretty face and nice smile and they give money for dances. period. they dont ask, "well, can YOU do THAT?" and if they do ask that, then they are 100% not going to spend big $$$.
PEP TALK YOURSELF
Bring up your confidence by giving yourself a pep talk before work in the mirror. "I am the hottest bitch on this site. I WILL take their money, and THEY WONT say no to me. How can they? I'm the hottest woman in here." Mantra. Make it work for you. When you then hit the floor, you will KNOW in your aura that you're the hottest there and that you need to be popping the question often. And remember, the one thing you need to know above all else: If they say no, it's NOT a reflection on you. It's a reflection on your pitch and on their mood.
Mantra: It's their loss. And instead of walking away with nothing, ask for a tip... "Aww, are you SURE you don't want me naked on top of you? Oh well. But I'm sure you'd like to grace my boobies with some money! (hold out shirt expectedly)".
I consider myself a top earner. At any club that I have worked at, people are amazed at the amounts of money I get out of men. My approach to dancing is a very business oriented. I am at work. My time and my self worth is of utmost importance, as it is for anyone that I am entertaining when, they, themselves are at work. Certain industries do not offer pro bono, we work in one that does not.
We do not have a flashing blue light above our heads or attached to our thongs. If a man wants you to "sit" with him for an extended period of time he should pay you what you would make for that period of time.
Men come to us for escape from reality and they respect our professionalism. They also respect girls that respect themselves. It truly saddens me to see girls that feel that they need to be sexually exploited for next to nothing just to have a man get "his money's worth" and girls that don't believe that they're worth thousands of dollars. I am not judging anyone. I have friends that are escorts and strippers that do extras, but IF girls that do those things didn't do it for the same cost as girls that don't, it wouldn't bring down everyone else's market value. It would make EVERYONE'S money go up! We have complete control over men at work. They came to see us for a reason. But they also know that there are many girls that will allow, time consumption for free and sexual deviance at the customer's preferred pricing. It isn't about hustle, it’s about fair exchange. These men are in YOUR office and they know it. Stipulate to what you want and make it fair to everyone.
WE are the ones who have the upper hand. The guys like to think they do, but THEY are the ones who come to see US. THEY are the ones who have to pay for attention from the opposite sex, not us. They like to try and make us think they have the upper hand (saying it's "their wallets"), but the reality is that THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR OUR ATTENTION, and the price is only a matter of negotiation.
And while most girls are NOT going to find a whale every night, we can all earn more every night by simply knowing we're worth it. Guys will always have to pay. Always.